Incense and Crayons

a blog about the priesthood, parenthood, and being an artist

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  • Sitting in silence with my daughters

    Most of my backyard is a steep hill. Outside the back door, there is a short, flat space of maybe twenty or thirty feet, then the land climbs suddenly at a sharp angle. The hillside is covered in trees with… Continue reading

    Sitting in silence with my daughters
  • Creating a literary journal

    I’m going to use this week’s post to advertise a project I’ve been working on. Part of me wants to apologize, but I think this project is really cool and I really want to share it with as many people… Continue reading

    Creating a literary journal
  • How do you write your sermons?

    Every now and again, someone asks me about my process for writing sermons. This question usually gets me pretty excited. I studied the creative process in graduate school and seminary, I like thinking about the theology of creativity, and like most… Continue reading

    How do you write your sermons?
  • Holding as prayer

    Just before my first daughter was born, a friend gave me a small book called “Holding your baby.” It was a book of prayer and devotions to be read by a parent in the first days of their lives. It… Continue reading

    Holding as prayer
  • Writing fiction with the Holy Spirit

    This afternoon I came home to find something very exciting waiting for me at my front door: a print copy of my second fiction book. The book is still in draft form and needs a heavy edit, and so I… Continue reading

    Writing fiction with the Holy Spirit
  • The tooth fairy and a longing for Heaven

    The other day, in our evening prayer time, our youngest daughter prayed that the Tooth Fairy is real. She has her first “wiggle tooth”, and she has that beautiful combination of anxiety and joy at something new that children have about… Continue reading

    The tooth fairy and a longing for Heaven
  • Red-tinted conifers and the darkness of God

    When I was in high school, I hated going to church. It’s not that I wasn’t Christian, though I have to say that it wasn’t until college of when teaching abroad that I really gave honest, mature thought to the… Continue reading

    Red-tinted conifers and the darkness of God
  • The Death and Rebirth of Writing

    Conversion is never one hundred percent. We always bring something with us when we make a change (or changes are made) to our lives. To put it into even more Christian language, the death and resurrection that we experience in… Continue reading

    The Death and Rebirth of Writing
  • Studying just one thing for a while

    Before I was ordained a priest, I studied and taught language and literature, specifically rhetorical writing and medieval poetry. As a teacher and a student, I had a lot to read: from students’ papers to long, narrative poems like Beowulf… Continue reading

    Studying just one thing for a while
  • Chanting the Psalms with my kids

    This year, I’ve taken on the discipline of bringing the Psalms more fully into my personal prayer life. Specifically, I’m making it a point to chant one psalm each day. I do this because, first, the Psalms are so very… Continue reading

    Chanting the Psalms with my kids