Incense and Crayons

a blog about the priesthood, parenthood, and being an artist

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  • Silent Prayer, Buddhist and Christian

    Before you read this, start with silence. No, really, please do. Sit in silence for at least ten seconds. Ten minutes would be better. Not because my meditation here will be better if you do (though, hey, you never know),… Continue reading

    Silent Prayer, Buddhist and Christian
  • The human stories of Scripture

    “Foxes have their dens, and birds of the air have their nests, but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay his head.” How lonely must Jesus have been to have said this. Or should we read it theologically, as… Continue reading

    The human stories of Scripture
  • Praying together in the second person

    “You” is the most important word in Christian prayer. Wait a second. “You”? What about “God”? What about “Christ”? What about “Jesus”? Yes, these are important words in Christian prayer, and the name “Jesus” certainly has its magnificent and eternal… Continue reading

    Praying together in the second person
  • Giving Voice to Every Creature under Heaven

    In the Episcopal Eucharistic Prayer D, the presider invites the congregation to think about what trees might say in heaven. That’s not exactly how the BCP puts it, of course, but basically it’s what the invitation asks people to do.… Continue reading

    Giving Voice to Every Creature under Heaven
  • Storytelling, Children, and Spirituality

    As I raise my children, especially as I raise them spiritually, I’m surprised at how much time I spend telling stories. This shouldn’t be much of a surprise, I feel, because Christianity (my faith) is fundamentally a storytelling religion. Some… Continue reading

    Storytelling, Children, and Spirituality
  • Asking children questions about God

    The other day, I asked my daughters if they had any tough questions about God. I was doing this to help me brainstorm questions for our “Coffee and Theology” group at church. This group meets every two weeks or so,… Continue reading

    Asking children questions about God
  • Prayer and Creativity

    We don’t often talk about creativity in our spiritual lives. Or, if we do, I don’t think that we talk about it enough. Usually, when discussing our spiritual lives, we talk about either our tradition or our freedom in the… Continue reading

    Prayer and Creativity
  • Adults in Children’s Sunday School

    We came to quite the problem when presenting Palm Sunday and Holy Week to our church school children. Our curriculum has readings and a video, but both the children and the teachers found it a little disturbing. Good Friday in… Continue reading

    Adults in Children’s Sunday School
  • To love every part of Creation

    A very good friend of mine loves strip malls. He also loves buildings on the sides of highways that are somewhat broken down, especially if they’re made of painted-over bricks or cinder blocks. Old mechanics’ shops, garages with no sign… Continue reading

    To love every part of Creation
  • Children and Lenten Practices

    This year, I played around with the idea of asking my two girls to take part in Lent. Specifically, I wondered if I should ask them to take on some sort of lenten discipline. In part, I’d like them to… Continue reading

    Children and Lenten Practices